Ways to Take Action on International Women’s Day and Beyond

We all know the world is bigger than our backyard. But stress has a way of shrinking us into these bubbles of survival. On this International Women’s Day and beyond, we cannot forget, no matter how much we face in our individual lives, that we belong to each other. As writer and poet Gwendolyn Brooks told us decades ago: “We are each other's harvest; we are each other's business; we are each other's magnitude and bond.”

While the current administration within the U.S., and governments throughout the world attempt to silence the voices of women and girls, especially those most marginalized because of disability, race and ethnicity, etc., we must continually take action, advocating like a mother. As Greta Thunberg, a neurodivergent climate activist, insists: “Once we start to act, hope is everywhere. So instead of looking for hope, look for action. Then, and only then, hope will come.”

Uplifting Sustainable Ways to Take Action on International Women’s Day & Beyond:

- Learn and Unlearn by Listening to Disabled Voices: We cannot begin to unlearn ableism without listening to disabled voices. Read books by disabled writers (absolutely love this list curated by a disability rights activist, Daphne Frias), explore offerings like The Neurodiversity Podcast, follow and learn from disabled activists and advocates on social media (some of my favs are on this list), @neurodivergentlou.

We must also understand disability is experienced differently based on your identities, as Imani Barbarin (@crutches_and_spice) once said: "Black, Indigenous, and disabled people of color experience the world at the intersection of racism and ableism, and no matter how uncomfortable it to hear, we as a community must listen to and validate those experiences.”

My dear friend and fellow Mama warrior Jenna James, intersectional activist and founder of @chroniclyconnectedperspective makes a powerful point:

“The disabled community is the one marginalized community that everyone will eventually become a part of. No age, race, gender, [or] class status can offer refuge. Anyone can suddenly become disabled from illness or injury and aging. Yet, it is one of the most overlooked forms of discrimination being forced upon a rapidly growing demographic.

What immense healing could come from normalizing disability? What diverse experiences and minds would suddenly be contributing to the growth and understanding of our society, rather than labeled a drain on it?

How many more could be contributing to our economy if remote work was factored into our workforce, as it was during the brief period of global quarantine when able bodied people got a glimpse into the isolation and difficulties of disabled life? There was a gift of insight and answers granted and immediately forgotten.”

You can read the rest of Jenn’s post here @chroniclyconnectedperspective.

Jenna James, educational outreach worker and intersectional activist. Follow her work @chroniclyconnectedperspective

Stacey Park Milbern was a disability rights organizer who constantly raised awareness about disability and the many layers of oppression disabled folks face. She says our activism must include transforming the culture in the film, My Body Doesn’t Oppress Me, Society Does:

“I really like separating out impairment from disability…So impairment as physical or neurological manifestation. Like what’s real. I have a physical impairment. And disability is what society creates as a barrier because of impairment. When I am in a place where my access needs are being met, then my impairment isn’t so significant.”

- Advocate not just for your child (and yourself, if you’re living with a disability), but the disability community as a whole: 

Yes, we absolutely must advocate for our kids as disability rights are on the line daily from proposed Medicaid cuts to the challenge of Section 504 via the Texas vs. Becerra lawsuit which I wrote about here and here with action steps.

This month, join the Non-Violent Medicaid Army Medicaid Monday gatherings on Zoom on March 10 and 17 to protect our healthcare! Check out a recording of their Saturday School on the Political Economy of Medicaid.


But our work doesn't end here, as a global society, change is required on a systematic level.

Disability Visibility Project is a powerful community and resource hub, founded by Alice Wong, which publishes original essays, reports, and blog posts about ableism, intersectionality, culture, media, and politics from the perspective of disabled people, builds online spaces for people to share, organize, and connect, champions disability culture and history, organizes and facilitates events, gives presentations, participates on panels, supports and amplifies the work of other disabled people and organizations in the community using social media, partners and collaborates with other activists and organizations in various campaigns such as #CripTheVote, #CripLit, Access Is Love, and DisabledWriters.com.

Check out their syllabus to seeing the connection between what is happening in Palestine with disability rights and justice.

Because multiple genocides and wars - Palestine, Congo, Sudan, Tigray, and Ukraine are mass disabling events.

Every day, the U.N. tells us, 1 in 10 children in Gaza looses a limb. Heal Palestine is helping these children by providing the support for surgeries and prosthetic limbs. Through their core pillars – Health, Education, Aid, and Leadership – “HEAL Palestine aims not only to meet the basic needs of Palestinian children, but to empower them to meet their full potential.

Congolese children and families, who mine the cobalt and coltan which powers our cell phones and other electronic devices, pick through rubble for these precious mineral (you can about it here on @congofriends). “Approximately six million people have been killed since 1996, and more than six million people remain internally displaced in eastern DRC, journalist Shola Lawal, writes in A Guide to the Decades Long Conflict in the DRC. Supporting organizations like Friends of the Congo and IHeartAfrica.org is an act of community care.

Sudanese writer and digital creator, Tysir Salih, raises awareness through her Instagram page and other writing about the ongoing civil war there (which is the largest displacement on earth), along with organizations doing work on the ground to assist children and families like Sudanese American Physicians Association.


Everyday, I am learning this motherhood journey which lives outside the box, is an invitation to deeper compassion, empathy, learning and unlearning, mindfulness and deep listening. May we all step into this heartfelt invitation.

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